Rekindle Your Desire
- Marisa Goncalves
- Oct 27, 2023
- 2 min read
(2 minutes reading)

Women's sexual desires naturally ebb and flow over the years. Highs
and lows often coincide with significant life events such as the start or
end of a relationship, pregnancy, menopause, or illness. Additionally,
certain medications used for mood disorders can lead to a decrease in
women's sex drive.
If your lack of interest in sex persists, returns, and causes personal
distress, you may be dealing with a condition known as sexual
interest/arousal disorder.
Experts point out several common causes of a low sex drive, including:
• Relationship problems
• Stress, anxiety, or depression
• Sexual issues like erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness
• Pregnancy and childbirth, as hormonal changes occur during
pregnancy, and caring for a baby can be demanding and
exhausting
• Declining hormone levels as you age, particularly during
menopause or pre-menopause
• The use of certain medications, such as those for high blood
pressure or antidepressants
• The use of hormonal contraception methods like the pill, patch,
or implant
Some experts also suggest that excessive alcohol consumption may
lead to a decrease in sex drive, although it may have the opposite effect
on some individuals.
However, it's important to note that you don't need to fit this medical
definition precisely to seek help. If you're concerned about a low or
decreased sex drive, there are lifestyle changes and sexual techniques
that may help rekindle your desire. Keep in mind that dietary changes
can also influence your natural desire for sex.
The primary objective of this exercise is to encourage you to delve into
the root cause. Depression, for instance, may not be the primary cause
itself; rather, it might be a result of an underlying issue. Similarly,
relationship problems may not be the primary cause; instead, they
could be symptomatic of deeper issues affecting your relationship.
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